Waiting... And Waiting Still

Hi Anytime Now!

I have a few questions to ask!

*well is it really okay to wait for your ex to comeback and accept you again?
*how long should i wait for him?
*is it really hard to move on if theirs what we call unfinish business?

Seattle's Be
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To Seattle's Be!

First, I do not believe in waiting. There is only taking initiative
and taking a rest. Either way, the burden lies on you, not any other
person. Is it Ok to wait for your ex to come back? You have to
consider what really is it are you waiting for. Was there any
circumstance that gave you an idea that he is still coming back. You
have to have some solid basis because otherwise, you are just assuming
that he will be.

This is the pain of waiting. You wait for someone to bring you good
news that would make you happy. For all you know, there was never a
good news to be brought to begin with. Look around you and see the
situation. If there really is a chance that you can still be together,
why wait? If you really want something that much, I say go for it and
do not sit there waiting for someone to bring you the bone. Go and get
it for yourself.

Life is all about you and the choices you make. You are the center of
your own universe. Be proactive and not reactive. Always remember
that.

I believe I already answered the second question as well. Proceeding
to the third one, it is already hard to move on after a break up, what
more move on after a break up with an unfinished business. But make
some reality check. Is it really unfinished or its just all in your
head.

Sometimes, when we want something so much but we lost it, we make
ourselves believe that it isn't over yet and there are unfinished
business that were left out. But think of it on a deeper level, the
fact that a relationship is over means it is finished. Whether or not
something was left unfinished, the fact that it ended means one of you
(or maybe both of you), want/s to finish whatever you had.

What makes letting go harder is the undying question "what if...?"
Tell you what, the more you ask yourself this question, the more
you'll find yourself further to the road of recovery. Never think that
there is a better choice than what you've made 'coz you can never
really prove that. You can go sleepless every night but not would not
really show you if there is a better choice. Instead, when you make a
decision, think of it as the only decision there is and make it the
best one you ahve made.

Unfinished business ends with you deciding to move on and realizing
that not all businesses have to be finished the way you expect them to
be.

I hope I answered your question. Thanks!

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