Dear Anytime Now,

How can I win the love of a guy na meron nang mahal na iba? will that
make me mangaaagaw? If so, Paano naman iyong feelings ko,iyong
pagmamahal ko duon sa guy paano na, patayin ko na lang ba?

Thanks!

Erwyn

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Hello Erwyn!

First and foremost, I like the name.

We all have the right to love, we all have the right to desire for
something that we want, we all have the right to want something that
others possess. However, we do not have the right to hurt someone just
to get what we have always wanted.

Loving is a good thing. It can never be wrong. But, it's how you act
to this feeling that makes it questionable. You said he is in love
with someone else but you did not specify if he is WITH someone else.

If he is just falling, or maybe fell, for someone but they are not
really together, I say take the chance. Make yourself noticeable to
his eyes. I'm not just referring to your appearance but more of
showing him what you have that his eyes cannot see. Show him how much
a loving person you can be if he is with you. Show him you love him.

Whether or not he would return the favor, that is a risk you have to
take. You ahve already done your part and the rest is up to him. You
cannot force him if he doesn't want to. He still has a choice for
himself.

However, if he is in a relationship, YES, you'd be a mang-aagaw.
Whether their relationship is running pretty smooth or getting rocky,
I don't believe that trying to steal him from his partner is a good
idea. Can you really be happy having him when you know that someone
got hurt in the process.

And consider this, if he left his current boyfriend for you, then how
long would it take for him to leave you when someone better comes
along? Right?

Loving is respect. As painful as it sounds, there are some "loves"
that need not be opened for they will just cause harm. At least keep
them for the meantime and go on with your life. You never know what
will happen next.

But when the chance comes that he is single and you still feel the
same for him, then by all means, GO and walk the extra mile to win his
love.

Love is alwasy beautiful so as long as in the process of doing so, no
one is hurt.

Thanks for posting! I hope it gave you peace of mind. Somehow.

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